Misadventures in Atlanta Blog 

An Atlanta dating scene blog, as only our Wise Diva can describe it

Are you sure they broke up?

  • 5:59 am Tuesday, September 16th, 2014 by Wise Diva

Paulette has been seeing a man for a couple of months. When they first met, he was honest about his friendship with his ex-wife. Even though they have been divorced for a couple of years, they talk every week. Paulette thought it was mature and admirable – at first. Now it’s becoming a red flag.

The main concern she has is the access his ex has to him. She has a key to his place and is still close to his family. She doesn’t want to be petty and insecure but it has become something [More]

Dating: Delete!

  • 4:58 am Friday, August 29th, 2014 by Wise Diva

Delete. Delete. Delete. I spent a copious amount of time deleting text messages from an attempted romance. If I could delete the entire memory of the guy from my brain as I did my phone memory, I’d be GOLDEN. Sometimes people turn out to be a colossal waste of time. It happens!

I always like to say that I don’t have regrets but this one I regret. I regret meeting, liking, talking, kissing, this guy. I legit wish I never met him and that rarely happens. He brought a whole bunch of drama to [More]

Boring! Should you dump them?

  • 5:41 am Monday, August 11th, 2014 by Wise Diva

A reader wrote in asking what should she do about her new relationship that has become a little stale. It has been about a year and the novelty of a new guy has worn off. They’ve slipped into a little routine of doing the same “boring” things and she wondered if it is time to let it go.

I think most relationships settle into a little of a rut at times. You both get comfortable and the mystery is all but gone. It’s natural to want a little spark back. I don’t think dumping them is [More]