Actions speak louder

8:15 am Mar. 9, 2015

There are a lot of people on the dating scene who know what to say to get what they want.  After a couple of run-ins with this kind, you begin to know how to spot them.  They talk a good game but do they also back up their words with actions?

I think we get caught up in the chase and when we actually stop chasing, we get bored.  This is

Celibate dating 

7:55 am Mar. 6, 2015

My friend Sean met a woman and began dating her at the end of last year.  She told him that although they have been intimate before, she doesn’t plan to do it again. She has decided to be celibate for religious reasons and her next partner would be her husband.  Sean is breaking up with her because he doesn’t want to have a relationship without physical intimacy and he is

Attraction: What do you notice first?

7:07 am Mar. 5, 2015

Have you ever been out somewhere and noticed someone who instantly drew you in?  There are things we first notice about people that can attract us to them.  I’ve seen men who just have sex

Feeling guilty about your breakups?

7:02 am Mar. 3, 2015

I was watching a film recently about a guy who was about to be married. He was reflecting on all the heartbreak he caused before he met his fiancée and it was weighing on his

Men and women are wired differently

7:53 am Mar. 2, 2015

The scientists tell us that men and women are wired differently.  How brains, logic, and reasoning don’t always mirror one another.  I think this can be both a blessing and a curse.   In the

Have you failed the support test?

9:03 am Feb. 26, 2015

When you are in a relationship, it is only a matter of time before your relationship will be tested in different ways.  One of these tests is the “how do you handle intense situations” tests.  When things get tough, do you get going?  Do you step up and help thorough the crisis?  It begins to show how close you two are and how well you know one another.  

A friend

Should you live together first?

7:53 am Feb. 23, 2015

I know quite a few couples who decided that living together was the next logical step for them. I believe it will lead to marriage for some of them. I think it could be the beginning of the end for at least two of them. How do you know if living together is the right move for your relationship?

The times I’ve seen living together lead to marriage,

Dealing with the running backs

6:25 am Feb. 18, 2015

We’re not talking football here (I really miss football, though), we are talking about the running back into your life kind of people. The exes that always return at the worst time. My guy friends always told me that the running backs in my life are there because I let them think running in and out of my life is cool with me.

In some cases, it actually was


8:38 am Feb. 13, 2015

While the people behind Fifty Shades of Grey are capitalizing on the so called love holiday, some people are thinking about actual love. Our pursuit of love and happiness is why we put up

Stuck in a rut?

7:36 am Feb. 12, 2015

There is a romantic “holiday” in two days and it is the perfect time to switch things up. Dinner and a movie is the dullest thing ever yet many of us get stuck on this repeat. Why is that?

You don’t have to be a master dater or some reality TV star to impress your date with something different and unique. A little listening, Internet