Love at first sight?

7:46 am Apr. 20, 2015

I consider myself to be just as romantic as the next person.  I’ve still not been a strong believer in the idea of love at first sight, though.  Sure you can feel strong attraction, lust, or be mesmerized by someone, but love? I don’t know that is what I would call love.

My friend Greg disagrees because he said he loved his wife from the moment he saw her.  He thinks

What is wife material?

8:09 am Apr. 13, 2015

A friend of mine was told that in order to be wife material, she probably should not be out every weekend.  Apparently, single women who go out too much can send the wrong message?  I suppose the idea is that you have to actually show that you are ready to settle down.

I don’t ever hear about men being told this, though.  Are men expected to show they are husband material?

Would you pick love or career?

8:10 am Apr. 8, 2015

What would you do if you got an amazing job offer in another city/country at the same time your relationship became exclusive? One of our readers had to face a decision: stay and give the new relationship a chance of survival or take the career opportunity?

I think if I had to decide this when I was younger, I would probably have picked the relationship.  Now that I’m older and Uh

Dating: Break up disclosure?

5:00 am Apr. 6, 2015

I know a couple who decided to take a break from their exclusive relationship.  The break only lasted 6 months but they dated other people. The guy hooked up with multliple women, including his ex-wife.  When the couple got back together, the girlfriend said she definitely did not want to know about his six months of freedom.  I was surprised because women usually want to know those kinds of things.

Why don’t we court each other?

8:20 am Apr. 1, 2015

Some people believe that single people today don’t really know how to court. Date requests are tweeted. Flirting is done with snapchat. We swipe left or right to determine interest or disinterest.  Well, maybe social media makes us lazy but does that mean courting has to go away?

Remember courting? Picking a date up. Getting ready for a night with someone cool.  Making real plans for spending time together.  The concept

What’s wrong with juggling dates?

7:25 am Mar. 31, 2015

I wonder why some of my guy friends get confused about dating multiple women at the same time.  It seems really obvious that this is something you should only do if you are upfront about it.  They usually resort to some kind of trickery or deceit to juggle dates.  This is why I believe they should try the one woman at a time approach.

I am not totally  opposed to someone

Keeping it sexy 

8:18 am Mar. 27, 2015

Sean doesn’t know how to ask his girlfriend about why she has let herself go.  It is an awkward conversation that has the potential to really go off the rails.  When they first started seeing each other she would work out with him all the time.  Now she let her gym membership go and stopped running every week.  He thinks this is only the beginning because she doesn’t dress sexy

Ready to settle down?

7:18 am Mar. 25, 2015

When Mike met his girlfriend he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship.  Now that they have been together a year, he thinks she is the one.  He is happy with the relationship, he just doesn’t know if he is ready to settle down and get married.  What makes someone realize they are ready to settle down?

After you have played the field for a long time, do you think it is

Everyone has baggage

7:40 am Mar. 23, 2015

My friend Greg is a stickler for dating without drama. The first sign of drama and he tends to jump ship.  He had one bad experience with a drama queen once so he is extra cautious not to relive that ordeal.  I think he is a little too cautious, though.  Just because people show some emotion or deals with a crisis doesn’t mean  they have drama.

We all come with a

Date is going downhill, now what?

7:47 am Mar. 20, 2015

Have you ever been on a date that suddenly started to go off the rails?  Perhaps they drank to much liquor or got too boisterous.  The idea of spending another hour with them has become too much to bear.  What do you do?  One of my friends who is a doctor faked an emergency.  I once saw a guy pretend to have a seizure!  There is no easy way to