Faking it is a mistake?

7:41 am Nov. 18, 2014

The egos that we have can be fragile and easily bruised. This is especially true when it comes to our bedroom skills. No one wants to hear a bad review or get overly

Before you close the deal…

7:39 am Nov. 6, 2014

One of my by friends recently hooked up with someone he met at a club. It wasn’t a one night stand, but they had very little time getting to know each other. I

Too vanilla?

7:18 am Nov. 5, 2014

Every relationship has its ups and downs. Part of making it work is being honest. That comes with a price, though. One of my friends said her man gave her some honest feedback and it hurt her feelings.

He basically said he would rate their sex life as vanilla in need of some passion fruit (couldn’t resist the bad pun, sorry). Then he went on

Post-hook up reality check?

7:16 am Oct. 22, 2014

After you have been intimate with someone, do you think their behavior changes? I asked because one of my friends said that he thinks women often pull a bait and switch in dating. The switch comes after they hook up with someone.

I know, breaking news: Sex changes things, right? Is it because we expect different things after we get physical? The guys that I know think they

Is it too soon for sex?

7:17 am Sep. 15, 2014

The advice I get from male friends about dating usually follow a theme: take it slow. Time allows you to figure things out, become more comfortable, and rule people out. When it comes to sex, waiting gives you a chance to build up chemistry but how much waiting is necessary?

I know some people who hooked up on the first date and later married. This clearly won’t be

Relationships: Not in the mood?

5:33 am Sep. 10, 2014

Did you ever hear that story about a married guy who emailed his wife a spreadsheet about their sad sex life? He listed all the dates he asked for sex and the litany of

Size matters?

6:22 am Aug. 20, 2014

So I have been a dating blogger for about 100 years and this is a true first, people: A guy told me his date sort of demanded to see his package. YES that package. Apparently, size queens are becoming more direct! She wanted to know what to expect before things went any further with them. He didn’t comply with her request and she thinks it was because

If it is bad, do you tell them?

7:17 am Jul. 2, 2014

My friend has been with his girlfriend for about six months. He is happy with her but admitted that things never heated up in the bedroom. Initially he thought they just to find their chemistry and hit their groove. The groove still hasn’t appeared yet. Should he let her know that their sex life needs some work?

I don’t know how he can avoid it, but it is definitely


He wants to wait?

6:05 am Jun. 30, 2014

One of our readers thinks the 32 year old that she is seeing is being a gentleman. He wants to wait before they have sex. She believed this was because of his religious

Is sexy time better delayed?

5:00 am May. 21, 2014

When you meet someone you are very, very, very attracted to, it becomes challenging not to rip their clothes off when you see them.  It is a good sign if you have the urge to do so, but can it be better if it is delayed?  Some people think that the longer they wait to become intimate, the stronger the attraction gets to build.

Sexual tension is a very tricky thing,