Are they into Strip clubs?

7:46 am Jan. 21, 2015

The city of Atlanta has no shortage of places to go and see scantily clad women dance around. It shouldn’t surprise you when you meet someone who spends a lot free time at strip clubs. My friend Kate thinks there should be some concern if too much time is spent there. If they are into strip clubs, is it a red flag?

Some people treat these places like

How do you define cheating?

7:59 am Jan. 15, 2015

There has been a little bit of debate among friends about what is considered cheating. I remember when my ex tried to explain to me that his married friend texting with a woman shouldn’t be classified as cheating. It’s almost like we try to blur the lines between what is cheating and what is harmless flirt.

Realistically, the only definition of cheating we should be concerned about is our

Don’t dump me in a text message, bro!

8:35 am Jan. 12, 2015

There are few breakups that don’t inflict pain and disappointment. We don’t ever like feeling rejected or discarded. If you take the cowardly way out and dump someone in a text message, you make it even more difficult to move on. Why do so many people think that text messages is an appropriate way to end a relationship with someone?

It is cold and heartless and it robs

Open to social media date requests?

8:00 am Jan. 9, 2015

Although the online dating websites and apps are seeing an increase in activity this time of year, some people make connections with other social media platforms. A friend of mine had someone ask her

What would you do differently?

7:00 am Jan. 8, 2015

There is a new show on VH1 called Hindsight. Don’t worry, it’s a scripted show! It centers around a woman who is about to marry for the second time. She starts to wonder if

Long distance relationships worth it?

6:43 am Jan. 7, 2015

Relationships can be hard. Long distance relationships that have to deal with “blind trust”, limited physical contact, and travel schedules can seem close to impossible. I know at least 3 couples who are trying to

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Should you reunite with your ex?

6:35 am Dec. 19, 2014

So this time of year can turn some of us into big softies. It is also prime season for exes to start popping up again. Conditions are perfect for this when your defenses

Betrayal: Do you want to know?

8:32 am Dec. 18, 2014

If you were in a relationship or marriage and your partner cheated on you, would you want to know? I ask because a friend is upset with her sister because she blew the whistle on her cheating man. She doesn’t think that it was right for her to reveal what she saw.

I think some people prefer to find out on their own or not all.

Don’t dump me now, It’s Christmas

5:00 am Dec. 17, 2014

If you didn’t dump your girlfriend or boyfriend in October, then you may be stuck until March. You missed a chance at Thanksgiving and now December is supposed to be a happy time. So you can’t be the Grinch Who Stole Christmas, so that means no dumping anyone in December.

I joke here but I do know a lot of women who figured out their guy picked a fight or

Should you befriend married people?

5:00 am Dec. 8, 2014

The is some debate among my friends about if and how you should befriend married people. I think you should befriend the couple, others think it is ok to become close friends with one. It seems like a slippery slope not worth the pitfalls that are sure to come.

Do you ever meet someone who is married and wants to be your friend? Do you proceed with