I was watching Raising Whitley on OWN recently starring comedienne Kim Whitley. She was meeting up with her now married ex to find out why they never made it to the alter. He gave her some very honest feedback that she was open to hearing.
I wondered if contacting people from your past could shed some light on what we did wrong and improve our chances in our future relationships. I can think of one ex that I would want to find out what went wrong. When it ended I didn’t care much about closure and getting answers. Perhaps I can learn what not to do if I contributed to the break up.
Would you ever ask someone from your past for advice about relationships? Do you think they can point out something about you that you never noticed?