Some women are not used to being told to wait for sex. There is the assumption that when they are ready, the guy will always be ready. There are some guys that prefer to take things slow, though. It doesn’t necessarily mean they are not interested!
My friend Jenna said she was giving her new guy the green light that she wanted to become intimate. He finally had to tell her that he is enjoying the time he spends with her and that there was no rush. A lot of her friends tell her the reason he is making her wait is because he is smashing several other women. I suppose it’s possible but should that matter?
If someone wanted to take things slow, would you be skeptical about their motives? If you are into someone, what’s wrong with waiting?