Posted: 7:05 am Thursday, August 28th, 2014

Pet peeves? Speak up 

By Wise Diva

You know the first couple of months of a relationship are so sweet and sexy? It really is the fun part! Well, eventually you get to that comfortable stage and things become more routine. This is also when you start to get on each other’s nerves!

My friend Harold is seeing someone who talks way too much at times. I guess it didn’t bother him in the beginning (before sex) and now he says it drives him crazy. I’m sure she has pet peeves that she could name about him but sometimes you just want the new romance to stay in honeymoon phase.

Have you ever been in a relationship and their quirky habits started to really bug you? How did you handle it? Should you be honest and tell them? Do you expect them to modify their behavior?

11 comments
Reio
Reio

Yeah, I got som'n for "Aunt Bee". She better be careful around me. Jus sayin.

Don't know, Bluz seems ok to me. Very honest. Can't really ask for more than that in my opinion.

I've only been able to log on a week and a half, but I haven't seen Leggs either. Don't know.

DirtyBird-Rise-up
DirtyBird-Rise-up

Where is Leggs?...Now that is some New York crazy right there...


@Reio ....Do you think someone dropped BluzGirl on her head 92 times?....That girl is crazzzzzyyyyy  But I like her  a whole lot....hehehehe

DirtyBird-Rise-up
DirtyBird-Rise-up

@Reio ....That is some Kra-Kra once you get her going, anything goes.....That what I hear.... hehehehehe!

DirtyBird-Rise-up
DirtyBird-Rise-up

Dang-it I start posting and we had 7 people listening now we only have 6 people listening..Don't do me like this...


By the way that Reio is a stone throw away from being in the crazy house....Talkin bout hitting Aunt Bee...

Reio
Reio

Dirty - Don't let Celisea fool ya>

DirtyBird-Rise-up
DirtyBird-Rise-up

Where is my SlimNu goody? I need to get at her before summer starts....She maybe young but she is ready....hehehehehe!

DirtyBird-Rise-up
DirtyBird-Rise-up

Dang if I can just get my mitts on Celisea before she goes celibate it would be an awesome experience. 

Wait maybe she is already celibate because she shole post some crazy stuff.....hehehehehe!

Celisea
Celisea

Get it "on", I meant

Celisea
Celisea

Harold, are you one those dudes that don't like women?  Meaning, there are men that won't be without a relationship, but women get on their nerves. 

I met an ex friend for happy hour a couple of years ago and he was the same way.  He wanted to meet, hook-up, get it own, etc etc etc, but he couldn't stand a woman that talked too much!!  (Right here, let's take a moment to do the blank stare expression and listen to crickets...lol).  This one baffles even me :)  How you like women, want the drawers and everything that comes with (i.e. perks of cooking, tending to you, etc), but you want her to shut up???  Grant it, I believe there's a line between being Chatty Cathy versus conversant. But, how you want some things from her, but not all.

If there's something that's irking the heck out of you, just tell him/her. Be grown about it.  And more importantly, that's why folks shouldn't be getting physical. There's much to be desired (oftentimes) once the smoke clears.  How about doing all that first, getting "getting to know you" outta the way?? 

Reio
Reio

I would just tell them. And didn't give a flying flip whether they liked it or not. Just said what was on my mind and invited them to do likewise. They never did. Even before the newness wore off(It always does) I would speak my mind. I saw nothing wrong with that. Some checked themselves(For a while), others did not. Either way, they all got the boot eventually. Sorry.


The one thing in all of this that puzzled me the most, and still, to this day, is why they ALL refused to let me know about things that bothered them. Every single one of them would come back with "Well, you don't have to worry, I'll let you know if something about you is bothering me...". Or words to that effect. But they never did, even after repeated requests by me for them to do so. 


Speak your mind. Don't worry about the consequences. Worked for me.

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

Hello all


Sounds like the lust has worn off. This is what happens when people jump into relationships without getting to know someone. When you have an agenda whether it be sex or marriage, people tend to over look little quirks because they're on the same page. When the lust of your agenda wears off and you start to get to know the real person things start to get on your nerve. Get to know someone, make up your mind what you can put up with and act accordingly.