When snooping goes wrong

If you are in a relationship, do you ever feel tempted to look in their phone? If you don’t have a reason to suspect anything, yet you still feel the urge to “spot check” things, do you snoop?

I ask because a friend told me recently that she was going through her significant other’s gym bag. She said it was to “clean” it out for him but she discovered that he had a totally different phone. It was a different phone number then his work phone which means he had 3 phones. Should wondered if she should bring it up. She runs the risk of that back firing of course, but what do you think?

If you snooped and found something questionable, do you confront them with what you found?

Do you believe that your partner should have spot checks on their fidelity or behavior when they aren’t with you?

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