Posted: 6:05 am Monday, June 30th, 2014

He wants to wait? 

By Wise Diva

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One of our readers thinks the 32 year old that she is seeing is being a gentleman. He wants to wait before they have sex. She believed this was because of his religious upbringing but now she isn’t sure. A couple of her guy friends told her that he probably isn’t into her that much because a lot of men don’t want to wait long.

I hate to stress her out but men delaying sex on their own doesn’t seem to happen often. It could be because of religious reasons but if he doesn’t say that, you probably aren’t going at the top of his priority list of things to do.

If a guy is asking/making a woman wait, is that a bad sign? Are there legitimate reasons a man wants to wait for sex?

Would you consider waiting a couple of months if it meant that you could become closer before getting physical?

Photo credit: msmagazine.com

268 comments
Into the Light
Into the Light

Alright, y'all, I'm off to play in traffic.

Be sweet, see you tomorrow!

SlimNu
SlimNu

@Purple Reign  I couldn't tell ya the last time I had some Pizza Hut, Domino's, Little Caesars....If I do pizza it has to be my favorite pizza café or Johnny's New York Style Pizza.

Anyhoo, I'll see you folks on the flip side, thinking about making tacos tonight :-)

Purple Reign
Purple Reign

Slim, yes I've been working out like crazy.

I wouldn't be caught dead eating chain pizza. Lol

Into the Light
Into the Light

Talking about pizza has me hungry.  I was gonna do turkey burgers for dinner tonight, but I may have to rethink that.

For some reason (must be the rain) I'm thinking chicken pot pie or chicken and dumplings.

Into the Light
Into the Light

Stamps - like I said, i've never been but I hear it's some of the best in the A.

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

ITL I've seen the building, I see that you would miss it, it doesn't stand out. 

Into the Light
Into the Light

LOL@Swiss.  Mrs. Swiss might not appreciate coming home to Swiss Mochette yelling "GO DAWGS!" at the top of her lungs and hyped up on chocolate.  But other than that, I"m a great babysitter (read: Auntie likes to spoil those babies!)

i'm swiss
i'm swiss

@ITL -- I kept waiting for somebody to offer... Lol

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

ITL I work over there, go down Hemphill sometimes and I've never seen it. 

Into the Light
Into the Light

Dang, Swiss!  Y'all need Auntie ITL to come babysit for a night?  :) 

Into the Light
Into the Light

Off Northside Drive between 10th and 14th on Hemphill Ave.

i'm swiss
i'm swiss

I've heard the same about Antico. Never tried it though. Hell, we haven't been anywhere since the first crumb snatcher was born...

Into the Light
Into the Light

LOL.  I live in Marietta and I've never eaten at Aurelios.  The place I do want to try, though, is Antico.  I hear it's some of the best pizza in the A.

Leggs123
Leggs123

I agree with you Reio on Pizza Hut!


Well, classes have started.  Hope to log in the morning.

PEACE!

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

@Reio man I ain't had domino's in 32 years, would rather have walmart brand (LOL) they should have went of business along time ago


ITL that's the luxury of having a vehicle (LOL) I can find better things to do (LOL) 

Into the Light
Into the Light

Stamps: Whatchu know about Marietta??  I didn't know you came out this way...

Reio
Reio

Pizza Hut aint s/h/I/t!!     Shoulda went out of business 17 years ago.

Leggs123
Leggs123

Reio ~ man, you are a hoot!

Reio
Reio

Like I said we got the national stuff, but those local names you guys mentioned ain't round here. I don't think. Cause I've never heard of'em.

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

@Reio LMAO  I eat pizza hut sometimes, they're okay also


I had to google, man you have plenty of nice pizza places there. 

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Reio - we love pizza & got tired of the national chains. We also started supporting our local spots more. Not trying to make u look bad!

Single - thanks!

Reio
Reio

S&H - We got the national brands and a couple of local places, but none of the places that's been mentioned.

I have a daughter in Marietta, but never heard of Aurelio's either. Som-a-ya'll proly pullin names out the a/z/z just to confuse me and make me look bad.

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Single - imma have to try that. We're always looking for something new in Cobb.

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

Aurelio's in Marietta has some good pizza. 


Reio Bham aint that bad, cmon son!! (LOL_) 

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Reio - tell these folks to go sit down somewhere & stop laughing!

Forgot about Bella's & Zucca, this little Italian place in the Smyrna village.

Reio
Reio

I'm getting laughed at a lot round here today. What is this?


Ween got no Azio,Jets, or Da Vinci's out here. Or Nancy's Either. Never heard of'em.

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

I like Little Azio, Jets & Da Vinci's over in our hood.

Leggs123
Leggs123

Domino's/Little Ceasars.....haa haa haaa!

Single & Happy
Single & Happy

Dynamic one slice of nancy's deep dish will fill you up :-) 

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

My baby girl is having a luau birthday party on Saturday. I may add Hawaiian pizza to the menu!

Leggs123
Leggs123

NY slices are real slices, nice and long.  Not like these half sized slices some serve.  

Dynamic2014
Dynamic2014

Nancy's makes real good deep dish...kinda pricey. I REFUSE to eat Dominoes or Little Caesars

SlimNu
SlimNu

I had pork chops last night with potatoes and green beans....I had pizza Friday so not feeling that. Decisions, decisions...

@Purple Reign  Have you still been working out/running? (with you eating pizza & wings)

Reio
Reio

Purple - DOMINOS is the best by far.

Kimmie - It's bright and sunny here(Birmingham). Might rain later, but not yet.

Swiss - Yeah, Visual Studio & VB is great.

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Leggs - one of my coworkers daughter was in NYC last week with her dad & she texted us a pic of her eating a huge slice of pizza!

Purple Reign
Purple Reign

Leggs I've been eating pizza because it's easy and I don't have to cook been eating a lot of wings too

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

We had smothered pork chops, rice, kale & collards mix & cornbread yesterday.

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

I made lasagna yesterday to heat up today. Will make a salad. Not really feeling that tho. It's raining & I want something cozy.

Leggs123
Leggs123

Purple ~ pizza is my all time favorite food but I only eat it once a month now....Wednesdays.  Can't wait until this Wednesday...WOO HOO!!!

i'm swiss
i'm swiss

@Reio  -- Yeah, I'm not a fan of any of those, either.  Well, Office is good, just cumbersome.  But Visual Studio (and .NET in general) can kick rocks.  

Leggs123
Leggs123

I'm having baked pork chop, yellow rice and broccoli.

Reio
Reio

Whatever she cooks. What I want and what she cooks are two different things. She knows to stick to a fairly short list of things, and I'm good no matter what. Not hard to please. Never have been. She knows this. Hell, I might even go and pour up a big a/z/z bowl of Honey Nut Cheerios too.

SlimNu
SlimNu

What are ya'll eating for dinner? I have no clue what I want. I hate that..