Posted: 5:00 am Thursday, May 15th, 2014

Why do exes come back? 

By Wise Diva

Photo credit: © 2014 MORGUEFILE

Photo credit: © 2014 MORGUEFILE

I have a persistent ex-boyfriend who seems to resurface every few months.  It doesn’t take long for me to remember why we are not together.  I wonder why he can’t figure out that we are not meant for one another.  Why do you think our exes seem to always  come back?

Do you have someone from your past that you are still drawn to?  What is it about them that you can’t seem to let go?

I have friends who reunited with their exes and they both say it was better after time apart.  The break up actually brought them closer together.  Could our “The One” actually turn out to be someone from our past?

Is it a good idea to go back to a past relationship and explore the idea of getting back together?

244 comments
Bluzgirl
Bluzgirl

I'm about to head out for the evening.  Been another crazy day at work.  Catch ya'll tomorrow, I hope

Reio
Reio

Bye folks.

Into the Light
Into the Light

LOL@Bluz.  I had a milkshake today and that sucka made me sick as a dog.  Guess that's what happens when you re-introduce junk after avoiding it.

D Dub of the ATL
D Dub of the ATL

Coming and reading this in the middle of the afternoon is like turning Howard Stern on at 9:30am... 

Bluzgirl
Bluzgirl

Random - I went past a Wendy's yesterday that had this on their sign:


OUR MILKSHAKES BRING

ALL OF YOU

TO OUR YARD

Into the Light
Into the Light

I did read that, Slim.  And she got some woman to take her in as her guardian.  She fooled them for over 6 months.  Cray cray.

SlimNu
SlimNu

Hey did ya'll read that story about the chick that enrolled herself back in high scool as a tenth grader, when in actuality she was 31??? 

SlimNu
SlimNu

I didn't gain my freshman 15 until about 1.5yrs ago  :-(

Into the Light
Into the Light

Dang, Purp.  Now you got me thinking about Dumbo Drop.  LOL

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Light - clap along if u feel like a room with outta roof!!!

I'm out gang, such as my blog day was! See ya tomorrow!!

Into the Light
Into the Light

Tonight the music seems so loud
I wish that we could lose this crowd
Maybe it's better this way
We'd hurt each other with the things we want to say
We could have been so good together
We could have lived this dance forever
But now who's gonna dance with me

Damn you, Swiss! LOL

Purple Reign
Purple Reign

That's what guys get for dating those thick girls...that thickness has an expiration date.

SlimNu
SlimNu

2C - How big of a change is her weight compared to when you saw her last?

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

2C - if u not feeling her, not attracted then nothing u can do. Hopefully she'll get the message.

Reio
Reio

2C - Go on and give her a chance. You never know, she might offer to sit on your face tonight. Her and all them folks she ate.

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Purple - nothing, it's just kinda sad to see when the years have not been kind or u see a once beautiful person that has obviously not taken care of themselves.

2CPTG©
2CPTG©

@Purple Reignand then, his azz wasn't even a starter: "It has come to our attention that an ineligible player played in the closing minutes of the Region 8-AAA semi-finals against Whitehaven High School" 

yo grown azz out there with them kids, and you only gettin' minimal playing time.....a loser for real!

Purple Reign
Purple Reign

Does your milkshake bring the boys to the yard?

Purple Reign
Purple Reign

some gangbanger got back in highschool as an adult pretending to be a teenager to get a college scholarship.  Ended up killing his coach

2CPTG©
2CPTG©

@SlimNu really??? that's sad....read a few years ago, where some 20+ dude singed himself up to play peewee football again.....do folks really crave the "light" to stoop so low...heck, I guess so....

Kimmieakasmooth
Kimmieakasmooth

Couldn't tell y'all azzes that in high school tho!! That's what u get!lol!

2CPTG©
2CPTG©

@Reio nah, bruh.....I wanna be attracted to the gal I'm with.....at this stage of the game, I'm playing for keeps....and if I know that I'm not gonna be all in, then I ain' wasting no one's time....'specially not mine....

Purple Reign
Purple Reign

Fat fat fatties get no love except from food

SlimNu
SlimNu

I never heard that story but dayum!!!

SlimNu
SlimNu

I think that shrunk :-(    It's like a muscle, you snooze, you lose it

SlimNu
SlimNu

*Gulp* wha wha wha well dayum!

SlimNu
SlimNu

That's what i was thinking....an addition of 200 more lbs...woooooow

2CPTG©
2CPTG©

@SlimNu and I don't mean to be shallow, or anything, I just know what I like.....